Saturday, November 4, 2023

HEALTHY & NUTRITUOUS COOKING through RADIANT HEAT TECHNOLOGY

 

HEALTHY & NUTRITUOUS COOKING through RADIANT HEAT TECHNOLOGY

 

The world of flora & fauna is unique, the key differentiator making them unique is that NATURE, GOD or ALMIGHTY whatever name you call has embedded the moisture & oil in every living organism which creates the uniqueness in taste & smell. In the presence of heat the moisture evaporates & the oil vapourises like a perfume & spread the aroma around.

Gourmet cooking is all about cooking food at an optimum temperature for an optimum time by preserving maximum moisture & its oil without carbonising the food.

Indians culinary practice is cooking & eating at a WELL-DONE level (78 degree Celsius & above) as all the bacteria gets neutralised. Bacteria survives & multiplies within a temperature band of 5 to 65 degree Celsius. Eliminating bacteria& preventing burning of the food  is key part of cooking. In DAIRY through PASTEURISATION, where milk is taken above 70 degree Celsius & then through blast freezing is brought to sub-zero temperature & due to this, thermal shock is created where the bacteria gets neutralised.

ROGAN in Indian cooking is a very popular word, meaning the floating of oil on top, which is a sign of food being perfectly cooked.

The beauty of Agnisumukh radiant heat technology is that our burners produces far-infrared rays where heat transfer is through conduction, convection & radiation mechanism, the energy produced is smokeless, noiseless flameless, producing uniform heat which passes through every molecule of food by uniformly cooking without any pesssurised centric heat thereby, preserving maximum moisture & oil after cooking.

Cooked food is best when we eliminate carbon inside & outside the food. Let me share how AGNISUMUKH has achieved this tremendous feat. Conventional gas burners work on pressurised centric heat where moisture of the food gets used up & food gets burnt this is a big menace in commercial kitchen across the world. Eating any amount of charred food can never be healthy. To prevent burning of food in a pan or wok the user usually makes faster back & forth movement & sometime tossing the food also. Exactly in our platform this method of cooking is unnecessary as the heat is evenly spread throughout the bottom of pan & a cookpot, the food usually never get burnt, This is how we eliminate carbon inside the food.

While all free flame conventional gas burners emit higher amount of carbon monoxide & nitrogen oxide. Improper combustion also leads to generation of carbon soot and increasing the ambient heat in the kitchen. In this process men in kitchen not only inhales higher emissions of carbon but also experience extreme heat causing discomfort. The kitchen equipment also becomes hotter as it stores the ambient heat causing further discomfort.

In Agnisumukh platform there is complete combustion so there is neither emission of carbon soot nor higher ambient heat & emissions of carbon monoxide & Nitrogen Oxide.

This feature is not available in any conventional gas burner system as the heat transfer mechanism is only by conduction, convection mechanism, based on flame technology, through centric pressurised heat. Currently there is no technology across the globe in commercial cooking through gas fuel for healthy & nutritious cooking food other than AGNISUMUKH.

 

 

HARI RAO

INNOVATOR, CEO

GASTRONOMICAL*MOLECULAR PHYSICS for Indian Gourmet Cooking

 

GASTRONOMICAL*MOLECULAR PHYSICS for Indian Gourmet Cooking

 

After spending more than four decades of time in Indian cooking led by passion, I was always taunted by my wife Rekha, “Hari you still don’t know how to cook Indian food as I had failed to remove raw smell from some of the recipes I prepare.  The blemish did not disturb me but compelled me to find the demon & fix it.

Forty years of work, standardising hundreds of Indian recipes flashed like a movie in my mind. Few frames of the fast forward movie got separated like a SPOILER ALERT from the rest, as a secret treasure & sounding it as spoiler alert with loud background music. Like a TAROT CARD READER, I was holding tarot card as the key indicating spoiler alert.

 

MOLECULAR PHYSICS –

What makes every living organism in the world of flora & fauna, a unique object?

Every molecule of a living matter is embedded with its unique moisture with oil which differentiates one organism with the other.  Only in the presence of heat the moisture & oil evaporates. Reduction in moisture steals the freshness & reduction in oil, reduces the fragrance, as oil gets vapourised by filling the aroma around.

 

GASTRONOMICAL-MOLECULAR PHYSICS: In the culinary world it’s an accepted fact that a gourmet chef stands out as he is the one who can cook the food without burning  as per the customer’s choice - WELL DONE, MEDIUM or RARE by using and preserving the maximum moisture & oil in the food by making food tasty & nutritious through the skill of uniform cooking.

 

SPOILER ALERT

Few frames which were lying as TAROT CARD in my hand was about to be unravelled, my heart was pounding relentlessly preventing as a force to throw it away the cards into abyss. Mustering all the courage I was flipping the card to see what was in it, I was strongly inclined where I needed to fix the spoiler alert by accepting the truth to take my journey driven by passion forward. I stood confused when I saw the image first of ONION & then GARLIC GINGER PASTE

Initially nothing made sense, but mind took over the head & began scanning the knowledge stored over 56 years of experiential reality in kitchen. Silently a curved line facing downward on my face brought an immense joy. The thoughts born out of cooking experience came to fore by synergising with TAROT CARD- ONION & GARLIC GINGER PASTE.

Some of the most difficult dishes in Indian culinary experience which left raw the smell were Ambur Biryani & Mutton khorma. The problems which were spotted by Rekha & reaffirmed by me were.

 

IDENTIFYING SPOILER ALERT (UPHILL JOURNEY)

BIRYANI

Strong raw smell of Garlic- Ginger paste

 

MUTTON KHORMA

The raw smell of Garlic- Ginger paste &

Khopra, khus-khus, groundnut, sesame seed paste.

 

I investigated both the dishes thoroughly & arrived into the following conclusion

1.    In Biryani I could find lot of traces of raw onion beyond the fore ground of raw smell of Garlic- Ginger Paste.

2.    In Mutton Khorma also I found semi cooked & raw smell of khopra, khus-khus, groundnut, sesame seed paste.

Finding the problem with 3 to 4 decades experience was very easy but fixing the problem eternally was the key by bringing it down to MOLECULAR PHYSICS as a Science was the critical challenge as the foundation of Indian culinary is principally based on Onion, Garlic-Ginger Paste as a key ingredient.

 

Now I was standing on a summit of Everest & knew climbing down hill will be a bigger challenge as lot of mishaps happen not while climbing up but travelling downhill. So for me identifying the problem was easy uphill task. But now fixing it was like climbing downwards.

 

To fix the problem we need to understand thoroughly the process of both the cuisine & relate to spoiler alert of tarot cards.

Usually the Ambur Biryani process is as under:

1.    In a large container pour required amount of vegetable oil to heat.

2.    Once the oil reaches the evaporation point around  200 degree Celsius put cardamom, clove, cinnamon, shahjeera & bay leaf, Once it sputters put diced raw onions & few slit green chilly to fry, once the onion gets into golden brown colour, put garlic-ginger paste as per taste. Once it is nicely roasted put the chicken or mutton for sautéing.

3.    Once sautéed put turmeric powder, chilly powder, jeera powder, pepper powder, asafoetida is optional& salt to taste. Mix it properly. Once nicely fried, add needed chopped tomato. Once the tomato turns into paste add cup of curd. Pour few glass of water depending upon the quantity of rice soaked for biryani, usually in the ratio between 1: 3 glass of rice water ratio depending on the quality & age of rice. Once the water with meat starts boiling, check the salt to taste. Now pour the rice on high flame for ten minutes and when the water evaporates to the brim of rice being cooked, Reduce the flame after 5 minutes into sim. If needed after few minutes place a hotplate on the stove in sim & place the biryani with container for 10-15 minutes. When the Ambur Biryani is served with curd & onion diced chutney.

 

Usually the  process of Mutton Khorma  is as under:

1.    In a container put the meat in a container add few pinch of turmeric salt, few sticks of cinnamon, sliced onions, few slit chillies, ½ spoon of garlic ginger paste& few cups of water to boil everything together, Depending on the taste (well done, medium & rare), Cook it. Separate the meat from the stock.

2.    Make Khorma Paste from (by shallow dry roasting khopra, khus-khus, groundnut, sesame seed, deskinned almonds)Once the paste is made add turmeric powder, chilly powder, jeera powder, pepper powder, fennel powder asafoetida is optional & salt to taste. Mix it nicely.

3.    In a separate large container pour required amount of vegetable oil to heat.

4.    Once the oil reaches the evaporation point around  200 degree Celsius put cardamom, clove, cinnamon, shahjeera & bay leaf, Once it sputters put diced raw onions & few slit green chilly to fry, once the onion gets into golden brown colour, put garlic-ginger paste as per taste. Once it is nicely cooked. Add Khorma paste & fry till it oozes oil bringing rogan on top.

5.    Once it is nicely roasted put the meat for sautéing, fry till it oozes oil bringing rogan on top. Add Garam Masala which is a powder of  Elaichi, Patta, Lavang, Shahjeera,& optional items are karan phool, javitri, jaiphal)

6.    Mix it properly. Add separated meat from stock, fry till it oozes oil bringing rogan on top

7.    Once nicely fried, add needed chopped tomato. Once the tomato turns into paste add cup of curd. fry till it oozes oil bringing rogan on top.

8.    Pour the entire stock of water if needed add extra hot water to increase the quantity of gravy to match masala. Boiling it till the till oil oozes by bringing rogan on top.

9.    Garnish it with chopped coriander leaves & fried onion & pinch of garam masala.

FIXING SPOILER ALERT (DOWNHILL JOURNEY)

Having identified the problem, fixing it involves delicate nuance of timing, heightened sense of skill to smell & visual appetite which comes from deep experiential learning of science & cooking,

ORDER OF PRECEDENCE

Fixing the raw smell

1.    In the heated oil onion must be fried almost to golden brown colour as once oil enters a frying pan, Kadai or any cook pot, it will never allow any material to cook, the smell of onion must get infused into oil.

2.    It is then garlic-ginger paste which must be nice fried till its golden brown. Its better when we put garlic- ginger paste, instead of paste liquify it by adding required amount of water so that it will get cooked by steam instead of hot oil. Once it obtains golden granular form, it will ooze oil bringing out rogan,

3.    Now it’s the time to put the khopra kus-khus paste for roasting till rogan comes out.

4.    The above steps are the order which must be maintained in Indian culinary science where onion, garlic-ginger paste & any gravy pastes are involved.

 

 

 

 

 

HARI RAO

INNOVATOR, CEO

 

Friday, July 8, 2022

MY GOD IS IMPERFECT

 


Joy ran to his mother with report card with great enthusiasm, the moment Lisa opened the report card, hell broke loose for Joy as the first reaction of mother was “Joy I am not happy, you just see Suresh topped the class with 95% while you are jumping happily with 78%, check with & learn from Suresh. Now Joy instead of being happy was sad. Abhiram, a cousin of my friend was in conversation with me “ Anna I want to follow the footsteps of Pavan Anna, as I am very inspired from him.” Initially it sounded very natural for me but later my reaction towards Abhiram became harsh & I replied

Abhi Tammudu 

 

I am sorry you seem to have misunderstood me.

 

It’s natural to like & get influenced by  ideologies & follow people but what I meant was that  by doing it blindly we will lose our natural strength what makes Abhiram as Abhiram. 

 

God has created different brush to paint  all  us  with unique abilities which exists only in us & is not out there. So when is that we are going to explore & discover that uniqueness in us as usually no one will do that for us. It’s a lone walk.

 

Do not get only influenced but discover the real you in you.

 

Just as you are finding good in others find that good & the unique aspect in you & work tirelessly on it. As no one can do that for us than our own self as we are the only one who is living under our own skin. 

 

We daily go alone to bed with our own self.

 

Is all I had to say?”

 

Seeking excellence & perfection is common phenomena in a human society. Right from the time senses prevailed in the mind as a child & thereafter in the process of growing as an adult I have experienced that there is a silent chase for perfection by first identifying a successful role model as a standard, then compare as to where we are and then start the aspect of shedding & chiseling our imperfections, this whole process is indoctrinated in us by our parents, peers or the social system we live in.

 

The perfection is just an ideal mental construct, a utopia or a mere fiction & actually does not exist in reality. No one is PERFECT & IMPERFECT is alone BEAUTIFUL is the idea behind writing this article.

MY GOD IS IMPERFECT is inspired by taking a deep peep into NATURE which includes humans, every species & every object on this earth.

Let us test a hypothesis by taking a human or any object on this earth by cutting into two equal half. In order to understand better let’s take my own self as an example & extend this logic to every object existing on this earth.  After cutting into two equal half when we compare then we shall find that my right hand will not match with my left nor my legs, fingers, fingerprints, kidney, heart or any part of my body.

As I believe in GOD as my creator, in order to avoid controversies people can replace god with nature for convenience. I was now searching why two part of the same body is not alike. It is then I started introspecting whether its by chance or by design.  I found that its by his benevolence he sent a message that despite being your creator I am happy with my imperfection & it is more attributed to benevolence than being perfect.

It is then I understood the difference between HUMAN WORLD & NATURAL WORLD & the intention & their respective creators.

 

COSMIC/NATURAL WORLD created by GOD the IMPERFECT Vs. HUMAN WORLD created by HUMANS seeking PERFECTION

 

My God is imperfect as he is an ARTIST & not an ENGINEER. An artist is driven by only compassion & does not believe in creating duplicates. While an engineer philosophy foundation is based on cut, copy & paste leading to repeatability like assembly line, little difference from standards become rejects through quality control & goes to dustbin as scrap.

Human world on the other hand scale everything into a standard & rank the whole society on similarity than uniqueness. When a person does not fit to a given standard are termed as misfit & deviants & sometime find their way into mental asylum.

The difference between human world & natural world depends on the theory of abundance the natural world philosophy vests upon abundance in giving while, the human world philosophy vests upon abundance in taking. Natural world foundation is based on love, compassion & silence while human society vests on pillars of fear, greed & guilt.

Cosmic reality & natural world is a world of imperfections. The contradiction of the human world can be experienced, when humans become tired & alienated while living in human society, they enter the natural world to get back their life. The beauty & power of the natural world is so much that they return from the natural world not as humans but as nature itself. This is what learned men like Buddha & many seekers did.

Seeking happiness from the imperfect world is distant possibility. Searching peace by accepting imperfections in the eco-system we live in is in the vicinity of immediate possibility. In my opinion there is no one coming to rescue us from exploring our true self .Let us accept unquestionably that I am unique & so is everyone to gain eternal peace.

 

I became a civil servant in the year 1999 by passing out from 53rd batch of IRS. After a decade I quit the service as Joint commissioner of Income-tax as I was feeling hollow inside despite the society felt it was an enviable job. I just went to Meenakshi temple in Madurai & chose a coin to stay in service or quit. The result was to leave the service & choose my new love the passion in cooking. I did what my spirit asked for but the quest was to find why I was feeling hollow despite reaching peak in my career.

 

Looking within I realised that I had a reached a state of depression of success. The desire to become a civil servant was not mine but my father’s desire. At this juncture I felt hollow not because as to what I achieved but I was not living my desire. It’s only when I realised that when I am in kitchen I dwelled with feeling that interacted with God’s it then I was not only happy, joyous & contended but I felt complete. Giving up what I didn’t relish & choosing my desire by aligning to what made me happy & made me complete as I gave up the human world of perfection & entering the natural world of imperfections.

 

Everyone has come to live their own life by choosing what they individually aspire to do which need not match to anybody’s expectation but what we all can aspire in common  is to become better version of ourselves every moment.

 

HARI RAO

20TH MAY 2022

 

Wednesday, July 6, 2022

SHADES OF IGNORANCE

   

LIFE IS A JOURNEY FROM

IGNORANCE TO KNOWLWDGE

 

Divya ran into my office & was baffled then started  blabbering ”Sir I have been entering vouchers in tally for more than two years & now I have realised that I almost know nothing of accounts.

I calmed her down by offering her a seat “Divya… entering voucher is a small percent of accounts…”

On one side I was explaining her… on the other side I was totally silent with an inner query that “When ignorance is bliss why Divya was agitated, filled with fear  when learnr she was ignorant..then what is that ignorance which is a BLISS?

I realised that Divya had just stepped into the world of GREY IGNORANCE. Only when one realises that they know that they don’t know, the travel begins...from ignorance to knowledge

This was the beginning & tryst with SHADES OF IGNORANCE… For Analogy & better understanding I have divided the ignorance as under:

 

1.  BLACK IGNORANCE-- is “when we DON’T KNOW THAT WE DON’T KNOW”. Black Ignorance I categorize this state of being in BLISS.

 

Let me cite an example.  “A contract killer is sitting opposite & I’m completely unaware…” In this state a person is in bliss due to ignorance.

 

The beauty of the state of Black Ignorance is that 99.99% total population in mankind were  in bliss as they do not even know that they do not know.

 

2.  GREY  IGNORANCE- is “when we  KNOW THAT WE DON’T KNOW”. Grey Ignorance I categorize this state of being in AGITATION or FEAR. Let me cite an example.  “A contract killer is sitting opposite  & I’m aware…”

 

 In this state a person is in agitation or develop  fear  due to partial ignorance. Only when one realises that they know that they don’t know the journey begins...from ignorance to knowledge, choosing the options thereafter, the shades starts changing.

 

 

The beauty of the state of Grey Ignorance is that 0.01% total population in mankind were agitated as they became aware that they knew that they do not even know.

 

3.     RED IGNORANCE- is “when we  KNOW THAT WE DON’T KNOW ” Then we attempt to travel the journey to overcome ignorance & give up, or don’t even attempt.

 

Red Ignorance I categorize this state of being in GUILT or TAG OF FAILURE. Let me cite an example.  “A contract killer is sitting opposite  & I’m aware… & make a HALF HEAERTED  attempt to fight, OR JUST GIVE IT UP ” Many of the suicide case I feel is covered under red ignorance.

 

The beauty of the state of Red Ignorance is that out 99% out of 0.01% (.00001%) total population in mankind dropped off from taking the journey from ignorance to knowledge.

 

4.  WHITE IGNORANCE- is “when we  KNOW THAT WE KNOW ” or travel eternally to overcome ignorance without ever giving up.

 

White Ignorance I categorize a state of all seekers of knowledge. All the knowledge in the domain of human society has been contributed by travelers with White ignorance, whether its Buddha, Fa Hien, Hiuen Tsang, Newton, Einstein, Ramanujam & many more.

 

The beauty of the state of White Grey Ignorance is that 99% out of 01% (.000000001%) were seekers & rest like Kashyap. Valmiki, Vyas, Atri ,Vashishtha, Buddha, Mahavira &… have reached their goal post & still inspiring the rest of seekers like Nagas Sadhu Babas, Buddhist & jain monks, Dalai Lama are still continuing their inner travel. I feel proud that the practice of inner travel still continues to be a dominant philosophy in India.

5.      GREEN IGNORANCE- is “when we KNOW THAT WE DON’T KNOW BUT PRETEND  AS IF WE KNOW”. Many of us are their in the list & the list just keep growing.  

 

The beauty of this state is that these were usually the drop outs from the zone of Red Ignorance which comprises majority of total population in mankind

 

Reaching the stage of omniscience seems impossible that is why some humans eternally became seekers as they accepted the do not know & took to travel the path alone as a seeker eternally and never to come back  till they shall unravel truth.

 

The knowledge available & known to mankind for the past 50,000 years seems to be a mere fraction of percentage of reality which exists out there as cosmic reality where our solar system & Milkyway itself is a speck of dust.

 

In the scale of TIME if one has to gather scientific knowledge of any observable PHENOMENA then we need to have the lifespan more than that of the phenomena.

 

Humans have knowledge about many phenomena like seasons, butterfly, birds many part of flora & fauna. It was easy, we were able to do it as our life span is much bigger than that of the observable phenomena, it is miniscule fraction of the total phenomena. But there is a limitation in shedding ignorance this way.

 

Many phenomena evolved beyond the lifespan of not humans but entire mankind. In this situation, the problem is “how to gather knowledge with precision”? For example. The age of earth is 4.5 Billion years or 450 Crores years.

 

While the entire mankind knowledge & combined continuous lifespan of recorded history is not more than 50,000 years. So gathering precise knowledge by taking the sample always can’t be a process of logical deductions, experiment, presumptions & guess work, even though the best & most accomplished scientific method with all levels of modernization & technology suffers from this inherent limitation.

It’s impossible for mankind to gather knowledge through scientific process or even acquire fraction of knowledge as the cosmic reality including an ATOM is Billions of years old.

 

But many seekers who are humans did not accept the limitations imposed by science & its scientific process. In Hinduism, it is believed that many learned men known as Rishi’s considered as inner scientists, in Indian society, realized this eternal truth that the material world outside them is so huge and impossible in the distance of TIME & SPACE to travel.

 

It is then the wisdom in them prevailed, where they unconditionally surrendered to the Almighty with helplessness. Its then the benevolence of almighty dawned upon these learned men.

 

All these learned men experienced that the world outside us is a mere reflection of what exists inside us. Everyone has a GOD’S particle as ATMAN, SPIRIT or SOUL, just by travelling inside & getting eternally connected to our own consciousness we become part of PARAMATMAN, the DIVINE. By just connecting to this divine in us we can access any knowledge by just travelling inside.

 

Many Asian countries like Japan & China had great warriors like Samurai’s & Shaolin monks & were known for aggression locally, regionally & globally. Their source of being great warriors drew its spirit from India’s self-defense system KALARI PAYATTU & BUDDHISM borrowing these arts  these countries localized & made their own form.

 

India without sending a single soldier is still the spiritual capital for them. Interesting part is that not only these countries but also other neighbors like Pakistan, Afghanistan, Nepal, Bhutan, Burma, Sri Lanka, Myanmar, Tibet and many others likeThailand Indonesia, Malaysia, drew their inspiration f heavily  from only Hinduism & Buddhism. This is colloquially represented now as Asian Culture.

 

India has history from thousands of years of not attacking their neighbors &  held its belief against territorial expansion beyond its age old contours from all sides is drawn from this spirit, which  is deep seated as the process of knowledge gathering.

 

The core differentiator between rest of the world including western world & India in dispelling ignorance and gathering knowledge is heavily influenced by peaceful method of non-violence instead of violence for having chosen to travelling outside than travelling inside. Let us understand this crucial process of knowledge gathering.

 

Violence is needed only when we need to win by competing something outside us by showing who is stronger? While fighting with our own self we need to unconditionally surrender with love to our own mind and self by becoming one with the nature and then then choosing the path of Non-violence becomes a neccisity more than a choice.

 

By surrendering to nature we learn that nature’s intelligence & cosmic intelligence is far superior to combined intellect of human intelligence. The learned men realized that everything is energy, vibrations & frequencies and is amenable for access by raising individual level of  level of consciousness. These learned men also realized that nature or cosmic reality as a creation existed prior to human existence and shall remain after the mankind is gone. Thus natue was independent of human existence.

 

The learned men realized through experience that without any violence by just surrendering the mind or taking the inward journey and by winning over oneself it is easy to connect with the outside world by just connecting within.

 

Connecting with Mother-nature without attachment, Is the root of Indian philosophy.

 

From time immemorial and till date, Indian belief system is entwined where it refers NATURE as BHOOMATA/BHOODEVI (Earth both as Mother & Goddess) & its unequivocal supremacy over human or any species. Every part of nature is venerated & is considered divine, revered & respected. This is another big differentiator between Indian faith-Hinduism & other principal religion Like Islam & Christianity. So violence with nature or others was never part of Indian belief system but being at peace definitely was.

 

In the realm of science travelling across time & space we need a machine. But our learned men, Rishis & sages travelled back & forth time & space without any machines & precisely calculated the geometry & mathematical calculations by merely developing mind skills. These learned men were inner scientist who were at eternal peace within themselves.

 

Many so-called developed nations are rich today as they have exploited & plundered the wealth of others in past & still plundering the mother-nature like a commodity, just because they didn’t have it. Food, sunlight & stable climate was and  is still a luxury for them, while the nature blessed Indian and several Asian and African continents with abundance.

 

The erstwhile plunderers reliance still on this philosophy as foundation has turned them materialistic as they are still seeking truth outside an individual. For this reason they are continuously at war within & leading to war outside.

 

As long as we seek truth outside us the shade of ignorance shall persist, at CERN, # 1 Scientific research Institute of the world, came to a definite conclusion  by conducting “GOD’S PARTICLE” HIGGS-BOSON EXPERIMENT that…

 

The combined might of science could not gather knowledge with their best of brains, machines & technology failed to UNRAVEL the mystery, truth & knowledge about an ATOM, the tiniest  particle known to mankind  and science.

 

To acquire knowledge or dispel ignorance, stop.

travelling outside

Just travel inside

 

Reaching a stage of omniscience i

HARI RAO

02072022

Sunday, November 7, 2021

                                                       LIFE IS RELATIONSHIP


As I stood there in the market deep in my thoughts, I saw a simple feat of friendship. The same vendor who grabbed a bunch of prawns from a pile in a hurry to sell them to a customer, was taking his time and hand picking the big fresh ones from the same pile for another customer. I asked myself, why would the vendor do that ? How are the customers different from each other? He charged the same amount from both of the customers. But why would one get hand picked ones and one get random picked ? I just stood there and watched. Then the first customer just paid and left, but the second one stayed for a while, shook the vendors hand, made conversation and paid him and left. The second customer who got hand picked prawns was my father. He always greeted the fish vendor with same enthusiasm every time, even if he did or did not buy anything from him.

A few days ago I asked my father, what was the purpose of life ?, as he seemed to have figured it out. With a smile on his face and a steady voice he said, “Relationships”. I was puzzled. I could figure out until a certain point by what he meant, but not till the full extent. He further explained it as, life being filled with relationships, your relationship with a person, with a car or a shoe. Then, as his theory started spreading through my mind, I started realising. Ever since the day we are born until they day we die, we are webbed with relationships. Relationship is constant throughout life. I started understanding as I could relate to it. From the clothes I wore till the air I breathed, I was bound in a relationship with them. I thought to myself, how could such a simple thing be the purpose to life?

“Sometimes the simplest things in life can be the hardest to understand” said a voice from inside me . I had got an answer but not an absolute one . My father’s theory made sense, but perhaps there was something more to it. I felt like there was a big part of it missing. But, I was happy that I had gotten an insight into my question and had something to start with.

That afternoon as I was eating big, fresh prawns unlike the first customer, something crossed my mind. The vendor had a relationship with both of his customers, then why would he treat them differently? As I told before, father used to always greet the vendor and conversed and they had developed a friendly relationship. It’s obviously because of that reason, he got fresh prawns. But why was there a gap between the two customers? Then it struck me! There’s another thing which is constant throughout life other than relationships. And that is “Time”. Just like relationships, we are bound by time throughout our lives. I had finally figured out the big missing part from my father’s theory. Relationship and time have always been co-related. You can’t have a relationship without spending time on it. And , you can’t spend time without having a relationship.

The first customer only spent time on making relation with the prawns he purchased. But, my father spent more time on the vendor than the prawns. Every living organism spends time on relationships. The reason why everyone’s life is different, is because each one of us chooses our own preferred relationship to spend time on. So in other words, “Life is all about spending time on relationships”. It’s as simple as that. Maybe there is something more to this theory, maybe there isn’t. Other than time and relationships, nothing is absolute

aN ARTICLE WRITTEN BY MY SON ON 23.03.2018 which enthralled me where I felt he needs no more education as he has decoded life itself

LOKESH SANGHI